Fireplace, coffee, and a good movie
Today has been rough, who am I kidding... this year has been rough. Today I sit and have a coffee by the fireplace with a movie. Time to decompress before diving into homework and some more driving Friday.
Messy, but OK
Life isn’t always just flowers and chocolate. It can get messy and dirty, but that’s ok.
Work Smarter, Not Harder: 5 Ways to Avoid Micromanaging
Are you guilty of micromanaging? The reality is that micromanagement is extremely difficult for most people to steer clear of. There’s usually something innate that tells you the only way something can get done correctly is if you do it yourself or closely monitor as...
12 Surprising Reasons Why You Overeat
Overeating can have many causes, but they all produce the same result. You gain weight and feel like you’re out of control. While you may be blaming yourself for lacking willpower or not trying hard enough, there could be something else at work. The real reasons why...
12 Strategies to Help You Say Goodbye to All-or-Nothing Thinking
If you’re feeling depressed or anxious, it may be a matter of how you look at the world. All-or-nothing thinking can make you feel like a victim of circumstances and cause emotional swings. One day you think your marriage was made in heaven. The next you want to call...
The Dangers of Comparing Yourself to Others
Comparing yourself to others is a reliable way to reduce your confidence, motivation, and self-esteem. It must be natural to make these types of comparisons, because nearly everyone does it. However, that doesn’t mean it’s a good move. If you want to become the best...
How Positive Delusions Can Help You to Reach Your Goals
A positive delusion could be viewed as merely a very positive attitude. Now, you might think that’s just being inaccurate and lying to yourself. You might be right, but the science is clear on this matter. Studies have shown that people who overestimate their skills,...
Passion is like a Fingerprint
Allender states, “Our passion moves us to choose one path over another, and it is as unique as a fingerprint.” My passion is people as well as helping them. I know that most people in the counseling or human services state that helping others is their passion but I...
Parent History
Allender states that in order to understand our personal stories we must, “consider the various characters – both major and minor- who make an appearance” in our lives. Allender points out that the major characters of parents come with their own stories that are often...
Reviewing My Life
Allender states, “If we’re taking a course, we’re willing to study books that bore us to pieces, but we won’t take time to review our own life, which holds answers about God and ourselves that will thrill us, amaze us and sober us.” I have had lots of experiences in...
Anger, Self-Blame… It’s ALL Your Fault
Whose fault is it that you went through that terrible time? Is it REALLY yours? Did YOU cause that person to treat you terribly? So you are telling me that YOU can control...
Girl, put that anger away… Deal with it the right way
We all get angry. Anger occurs when someone behaves in a way that violates our ‘rules’ or standards. While anger is neither good nor bad, what you choose to do with that anger can make a huge difference in your life. Anger can be a trigger to motivate you to resolve a...
Emotional Healing for the Hurting Heart
Isn’t it true that your emotions really take a knock when your heart is aching? Sometimes it feels like the day of healing is a million miles away. The difficult time you encountered in the past can take a while to be purged from your system. It’s definitely healthy...
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