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Hi! We haven’t seen you around these parts before.
Come in! Come in!

(Don’t you DARE hide your Sassy!)

We should probably get to know each other before getting to second base, don’t you think? We can tell you that we are not your typical Christians, though we still follow God’s Word. We’re sassy, a little bit cheeky, and a whole lot of goofy. We’re not here to ram our beliefs down peoples throats (because that’s third base ha!), but we aim to inspire and encourage you to step outside your comfort zone and wow others with your BAM while being true to your faith in Jesus too!

There’s also lots of other things you should know about us too, like about when we were young (and dumb) making plans to travel together across the world without a care in the world… but then life set in and we realized adulting wasn’t so free after all (which is how we ended up starting this online community to help others’ inner BAM come out too in the first place). Fortunately we’ve both learned so much since then. (Like how to live even past our drag experiences.)

Let’s chat some more! Follow us into the other room, and we’ll pour you a coffee (Just kidding, it’s Bailey’s.)

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